For him

Be there for his 18th birthday.

What you do

A few sentences is enough.

You can stop and come back.

You can record it.

A video or a voice note, if you’d rather talk.

If you need a start

A few places to start.

Pride

What you’re proud of

The kindness. The moment you knew.

Hope

What you hope for him

And what you never needed him to be.

The last line

That you love him

In your own words.

Questions

What if I’m still here that day?
You can tell him yourself. If you chose a date, the message is set for that day, even if you’re still here.
Can I edit it later?
Yes. Change the letter, the video, or the date whenever you like.
Who can read it?
Only him, and you. We can’t read it.
What does he need?
An email address. No account, and he never pays.
Can I write to more than one person?
Yes. Each person gets their own letter and their own day.